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About
Deacons
The Deacons at Henderson Hills are dedicated to service, not leadership.
The Deacons administer several ministries, including the following:
Deacon's
Benevolence Fund
The
Deacons take one offering every month in a Sunday night service and use
all funds received for those individuals in the church and in the community
who are in need of financial support. Payment of gas bills, food, water,
and clothing have all been provided by the church through the Deacon Benevolence
Fund. Anyone in need of support may contact the church directly. All contributions
are made with confidentiality, and even the Deacons are unaware of who
has received assistance.
Widow/Widower
Ministry
The
Deacons also try to maintain relationships with the widows and widowers
of our church. Some deacons may be responsible for one individual while
others may have as many as three people in their care. If you are a widow
or widower and are have not been assigned a Deacon, please contact Bart
Canon, Vice Chairman of the Deacons.
Single
Parent Ministry
The
Deacons will provide to those individuals who are single parents various
means of support. Free oil changes, some housing upkeep and groundsman
work are just a few of the services provided single parents.
Blood
Drive
The
Deacons work every year to build the reserves at the Samuel Goldman Blood
Institute in Oklahoma City. During times such as the Oklahoma City Bombing
and when other tragedies occur, a bloodbank provides life sustaining help
to area hospitals and emergency rooms. The Deacon's blood drive is set
up at the church, but donations may also be made at any time at the Goldman
Blood Institute on Lincoln Boulevard in Downtown Oklahoma City.
The following
qualifications give guidance to the selection of our deacons.
The 11
Qualifications Of Deacons
1. MUST
BE A MAN OF DIGNITY. (1 Tim. 3:8) A deacon must be well-behaved, well-organized,
a man whose life is in order. This often affects such areas of life as
responsibility and honorable use of language. If the deacon is not respectable,
he would never have the credibility needed to feed, lead, protect, and
love the flock.
2. NOT
DOUBLE TONGUED. (1 Tim. 3:8) This characteristic plainly prohibits
any kind of manipulative, insincere, or deceitful speech. Behind a deceitful
tongue is a deceitful mind. Positively, the term emphasizes integrity
of speech, sincerity, and truthfulness. A deacon must be a man of his
word.
3. NOT
ADDICTED TO MUCH WINE. (1 Tim. 3:8) This characteristic sets down
the absolute prohibition of drunkenness in a deacon's life. We must also
remember what the Scripture teaches in Romans 14:21 and 1 Corinthians
10:31. There are many reasons why a deacon would do well to totally abstain
from alcohol. As the King James Version translates it, "not given
to much wine." What is translated, "given to," is the Greek
verb, prosecho, "to set ones attention toward." It means
to care for something in such an absorbing manner that other duties are
neglected. One who sets importance on having as much wine as possible
should not be a deacon.
4. NOT
FOND OF SORDID GAIN. (1 Tim. 3:8) The Bible teaches us a great deal
about the appropriate and inappropriate use of, and desire for, money.
An excellent example of this is found in Deuteronomy 8:17. Here, Moses
explains that we tend to equate material possessions with our significance.
In Revelation 3:17, we are told of a human tendency to link money with
security. Both of these inclinations ignore Matthew 5:33 and Hebrews 13:5,
which say our security and significance come from the depth of our own
intimacy with the Lord. A man meets this qualification for being a deacon
if he has an obvious understanding of the evil money can cause and then
rejects the temptations money brings. Read 1 Timothy 6 for more information
on this subject.
5. HOLDING
TO THE MYSTERY OF THE FAITH WITH A CLEAR CONSCIENCE. (1 Tim. 3:9)
A deacon's life must be consistent with Christian doctrine. The New Testament
never allows people to separate life and doctrine. Whenever we knowingly
act in a way that is contrary to Gods Word and do not seek His forgiveness,
we defile our conscience. Every time we violate our conscience, we weaken
its convicting power and make sin and hypocrisy easier to commit. Therefore,
a Christian whose inconsistent, hypocritical life belies biblical truth
cant be a deacon.
6. LET
THESE ALSO FIRST BE TESTED. (1 Tim. 3:10) The deacon cannot be a new
convert. Spiritual maturity is of greatest importance, due to the spiritual
responsibilities deacons face.
7. BEYOND
REPROACH. (1 Tim. 3:8) Beyond reproach literally means "not able
to be taken hold of." It relates to having a good reputation. In
a way, this is a summary statement of the rest of the qualifications.
When a Christian applies the principles of Gods Word, and desires
to deepen his relationship with Christ, the result will be a lifestyle
that could be described as being beyond reproach. Character flows from
values and faith. When we establish a sincere faith in Christ, godly values
blossom and character deepens. Obviously, a deacon must have an excellent
reputation, if he is to have credibility with the flock of God.
8. "WIVES"
OR "WOMEN". (1 Tim. 3:11) There is some debate among conservative
Christians about the meaning of "wife," or "woman"
in this verse. For example, the NASB translates the word as "women,"
and the NIV translates it as "wife." It is difficult to know
which is the better translation. More consideration should be given to
this subject.
Paul lays
down four requirements. This woman must be dignified, not a malicious
gossip, temperate, and faithful in all things. She is to be dignified,
a woman worthy of respect. Rather than being a gossip, she must be a woman
who controls her tongue and speaks wisely and lovingly. She must be temperate,
possessing stable character, a woman who has balanced judgment and self-control.
She must be faithful in all things, a faithful Christian woman who can
be relied on to fulfill her Christian duty in every area of life.
9. HUSBAND
OF ONE WIFE. (1 Tim. 3:2; Titus 1:6) The Greek words, which we translate
as "the husband of one wife," speak to the subject of fidelity
in marriage, not marital status. Directly rendered, the Greek phrase says
"a one woman man." If married, the elder must be absolutely
committed to his wife.
Famed Southern
Baptist Seminary professor and linguist A. T. Robertson, John MacArthur,
J. Vernon McGee and Charles Swindoll, agree this phrase addresses the
issues of polygamy or fidelity in marriage, not divorce. Among the other
biblical experts agreeing with view are, Drs. Ed Glasscock, Fritz Rienecker,
Albert Barnes and Eric Titus.1 However, we should not assume from this
that divorce is inconsequential or insignificant. Jesus sternly warned
His followers to avoid divorce. When selecting an elder or deacon, a divorce
should be seen as a "red flag" in the candidates past.
Since an elder must be a good steward of his family, a recent divorce
disqualifies a man from serving as an elder. However, divorce is not the
unpardonable sin. For example, a man may have divorced many years ago.
Since then, he may have remarried and lived an exemplary and mature Christian
life. This man may now enjoy a godly marriage, raising children who love
the Lord. When we take this mans total life experience into consideration,
the divorce should not disqualify him from consideration as an elder or
deacon. However, if the divorce was recent, or if there is any question
about his relationship with his wife or leadership of his family, the
man must not be considered for appointment.
10. GOOD
MANAGERS OF THEIR CHILDREN. (1 Tim. 3:12) The deacon's children must
bring honor to their parents. This demonstrates that the deacon, and his
wife, have encouraged order and loving discipline in their home. However,
these principles do not suggest that the deacon must raise "perfect"
children. To require such a standard would render no father qualified
to be a deacon. A man who has raised, or is raising, children who love
the Lord, will also have the ability to encourage holiness among the rest
of Gods children.
11. GOOD
MANAGERS OF THEIR HOUSEHOLDS. (1 Tim. 3:12) It is possible for a man
to be morally qualified to be a deacon, but disqualified by his lack of
leadership in his home. We must remember that there are two issues at
work in each home. First, there is the quality of leadership that is offered.
Secondly, there is the willingness to follow the leadership that is given.
The deacon must be committed to the task of being a good steward of his
household. Household leadership is an important qualification for deacons
because the church is more of a family than a business.
The following are statements by noted professors and biblical commentators
on the subject of "husband of one wife."
A.T. Robertson, Word Pictures In The New Testament, volume IV. page 572.
"'of one wife' (mias gunaikos). One at a time, clearly."
John MacArthur,
Church Leadership, John MacArthur's Bible Studies, page 51. "Paul
was not referring to an elder's marital status, because that is not a
moral qualification for spiritual leadership. However, if the elder is
married, he is to be a one- woman man.
Unfortunately,
it's possible to be married to one woman yet not to be a one-woman man.
Jesus said, 'Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed
adultery with her already in his heart.' (Matt 5:28) A married-or unmarried-man
who lusts after a women is unfit for the ministry. An elder must love,
desire, and think only of the wife God has given him."
J. Vernon
McGee makes the following interpretation of "husband of one wife",
in his Thru The Bible Commentary, volume 5, "'The husband of one
wife.'
I think that the primary meaning here is that the bishop or
elder should not have two wives. Polygamy was common in Paul's day, and
bigamy was certainly prevalent. The officer in the church should be the
husband of one wife."
Charles
Swindoll, in Excellence in Ministry, page 41, writes, "So what
does "husband of one wife" mean? Taken in its most basic sense,
it means that an overseer, if married, must be married to only one woman
(which excludes bigamy, polygamy, and homosexuality) and must be devoted
to his wife (which excludes promiscuity and an unhealthy marriage.)
Dr. Ed
Glasscock, writing in the Dallas Theological Seminary Theological
Journal, Bibliotheca Sacra, July-September 1983, says, "One may assume
Paul meant to prohibit divorce and remarried men from serving as elders,
but one should honestly admit that Paul did not say 'he cannot have been
previously married' or 'he cannot have been divorced.' What he did say
is that he must be a one-wife husband or a one-woman man. Paul was clearly
concerned with one's character when a man is being considered for this
high office; Paul was not calling into review such a person's preconversion
life." We should consider the same to be true of deacons.
Dr. Fritz
Rienecker, the renowned German expert on the Greek New Testament writes,
in his work A Linguistic Key To The Greek New Testament,"'
a
husband of one wife,' 'one woman man.' The difficult phrase probably means
that he is to have only one wife at a time."
Dr. Albert
Barnes, in his widely accepted commentaries, Barnes On The New Testament,
Thessalonians-Philippians, writes, "It is the most obvious meaning
of the language, and it would doubtless be thus understood by those to
whom it was addressed. At a time when polygamy was not uncommon, to say
that a man should 'have but one wife' would be naturally understood as
prohibiting polygamy."
Eric Titus,
in The Interpreter's One-Volume Commentary On The Bible says, "The
import is plain: the bishop must be free of any suspicion of loose sexual
relationships; he must be above reproach as the exemplar of family integrity."
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